6 weeks (+)

Tuesday marked 6 weeks of life for Elliot...and it continues to amaze me that if I didn't have the job I have, I would have had to be back at work on Wednesday. Maternity leave (excuse me, it's not called that, it's medical leave) in the US is so crazy!  You are guaranteed your job for 6 weeks no matter where you work, and 12 weeks if you work for a large enough employer (I work for the state, so definitely a large enough employer).  My employer will also allow further parental leave for up to one year and still allow you to return to your job - but this is not mandated like the other leave, I just happen to work somewhere that allows it.  All of this leave is completely unpaid - the US is the only industrialized nation in the world, and one of only 4 nations total that have unpaid maternity leave.  Crazy.  I will be taking my full 12 weeks starting late August when the semester would be starting again for me, and then an additional 4 weeks of "parental leave" for the remainder of the fall semester (because nobody wants a new teacher taking over the class with only a few weeks left in the semester). Right now I'm just on my regular 3 months of non-paid, non-working summer time.  So, I feel lucky that I will end up getting 7 months of time with my baby before I return to work when most people only get between 1.5 and 3 months.  The academic schedule works out nicely for having babies!

Anyway, here's what we've been doing this week!

dreaming about pooping on our almost daily walk around the lake

naked play time with big brother

tummy time is so much better with a friend!

We also went to the garden store, and O was particularly excited about the skid steer that was parked in the back of the tree area.

Every summer, artists craft mini golf holes that are set up in the Sculpture Garden outside the Walker Art Center (which is quite close to our house!).  So we headed over this morning to play the front 9.

nice form!

rockin' the promotional sunglasses the museum was handing out to the kids.

One month old

I didn't get around to this last week when Elliot actually turned 1 month old, but here it is now!  He continues to be very mellow, and still only feeds once a night - too bad he decided this week that his 3ish am feeding should also be time to get up for the day, so he likes to only lightly snooze (read: grunt, kick, and fuss with intermittent bouts of sleep) until he eats again around 6 or 7am, at which point he plays for a bit and then falls soundly asleep again by 8 or 9am. And is practically comatose from the hours of 11am to 6pm. I guess he still has his days and nights a bit flip flopped...we'll get that sorted soon enough. I can't complain, this is leaps and bounds better than Owen slept and ate at this age!

Owen continues to be a great big brother - occasionally requesting I "put Elliot in the crib and come play with me Mama", but mostly being very patient when Elliot needs something and is very gentle with him.

This summer has been relatively cool so far (mid to high 20sC as opposed to mid 30sC) so it has been great for getting out and not sweltering.  We have continued our Friday night picnic tradition (and other nights as well for that matter...but always on Fridays), so here are a couple pics from our last couple picnics (Sculpture Garden and Minnehaha Falls, respectively).

Owen for scale

sleeping beauty in the stroller there...perhaps if he would ever be awake during the day he may not decide 3am is "morning"

we had water with us, but the water fountain is always way more fun!

We also had a play date with MJ, Greta, and Teddy earlier this week to run in the sprinkler and play in the sandbox (mostly the latter in Owen's case - that kid loves himself a sandbox!).  The only pictures I managed to take were when they were all preoccupied with the watermelon.

young primates gathered around their fruit

"you want melon, Mama?"

and of course Elliot was napping through all of it...

But here are some pics of him awake (it does happen...)

brothers 2

Owen continues to be a great big brother, bringing Elliot toys, and gently patting him saying "It's okay, Elliot" if E is ever fussing.  It's pretty darn sweet!

Minnie Pearl with his brother...

such a good (and insistent) helper of all things yard related!

it continues to amaze me how much E looks like O at this age.  Genetics = crazy weird stuff!

Grandparents

Grandma and Grandpa came for an extended weekend visit this past weekend to meet little Elliot and have some solid play time with Owen.  Owen took full advantage, getting Grandpa to help him dig in the sandbox with all the new trucks Grandma and Grandpa toted down here in their bags (they are used to the weird looks from customs at this point), and we took full advantage of Grandma's superior weeding skillz to get our gardens back to looking decent...and sneak in a few naps of course!  It was a great visit and we are so happy they could make the trip down here!

Friday Family Picnic tradition continues with Grandparents in tow!

snuggled up with Grandpa reading

look at those new (30 year old) trucks!

getting some tips on weeding from Grandma

old man sleepy face for Grandma

Grandpa clearly didn't get the memo about wearing horizontal stripes for the photo shoot

And this afternoon, we took advantage of the sunshine to have a little run through the sprinkler!